Gender & sexuality are about relationships. The relationships in our lives, the relationships we cherish and/or abhor. It fascinates me how they provide an endless well of experiences, which inevitably move me through the world in unexpected ways. I like thinking of my sense of self as an ocean because of all the different kind of movements that are possible within that medium. I can flow through a current with one person, while fighting against a hurricane with another. I would love to hear if others find this approach as empowering as I do.